Where Are All The Single Guys?
The age-old question many woman ask on a regular basis – where are all the single guys? When you’re attached or in a relationship you seem to find them everywhere, yet when your looking for a guy, they are mysteriously no where to be found.
The biggest mistake many woman make when looking for a single guy is looking in the wrong place. While there are probably many couples who have met during a drunken night in a bar or nightclub, this is generally a recipe for disaster if you are looking for a guy with some staying power. Think outside the box when you are looking for a man. Try a menswear store with the premise you are looking to buy a gift for your brother and are asking his advice or opinion on a certain item. If the conversation flows easily perhaps ask him for his opinion on an item you saw in another store – then you’ll buy him a coffee to say thanks.
Contrary to popular belief, single guys don’t generally congregate in one location – although that would be helpful! They are everywhere and anywhere. It pays to remember they need to do all the things that you do – grocery shopping, paying bills, fill up on gas and grab a coffee before work. Everywhere you go there will be single guys passing you by. Once you start to think this way, you’ll open yourself up to starting conversations with anyone and everyone. This is the only way you’ll find out if someone you are potentially attracted to is single.
Now you’ve identified several single guys it is up to you what you are going to do about it! Remember most good guys are just as shy about making the first step as you are, bite the bullet and take the plunge yourself.
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